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2012年8月31日 星期五

悶到爆


悶到爆

都市人怕什麼呢?除了怕窮怕病怕死之外,應該數到「怕悶」。點解都市人咁怕悶呢?

「悶」沒有市場
市場上的產品服務,千方百計爭取客人注意。如果該產品服務給人有「悶」的感覺,就一定乏人問津無銷量。結果,「悶」變成沒有市場,「悶」是一種壞評價。如果一套戲被評為悶戲,觀眾會鬧爆割櫈。進修讀書,學生彈阿sir教得沉悶。參加旅行團,旅客彈行程好悶。那本書寫得好悶。「悶」是一種罪名,會接到投訴的。

悶是浪費時間
人人每天得24小時,如果花了時間在悶的人和事上,是十分浪費生命和不值的!與其花時間在悶嘢身上,倒不如拿時間做其他更有趣的事情。這是「機會成本」的道理。最普遍的例子:跟朋友吃飯見悶,便垂頭玩電話,電話提供資訊娛樂,更勝面前這個悶局。拒絕沉悶,不想浪費寶貴時間,改去做其他有意義的事情。

悶令人情緒低落
有人說:「悶會悶出個病來」,即是所謂「屈到病」;情緒影響身體狀況。例如:有人認為返工好悶好悶,放工後要心理平衝一吓,開懷大玩大吃一番!人天生本性追求快樂,所以本能地逃避沉悶。悶人沒有話題,不懂交際、欠缺吹水藝術,身邊的人都避之則吉,結果惡性循環,悶人越來越無人理會,變成了個孤僻「悶精」。

習慣被娛樂
在消費主義主導下,顧客養成了的心態是:「我來消費你便要娛樂我」。每一分鐘都習慣被娛樂。如果面前的人或事缺乏娛樂性,就打個呵欠,立即想走人。相反,如果那人充滿娛樂性,則成為聚會中的焦點,大家乖乖做觀眾,等他提供免費娛樂。

悶的工作、悶的電視、悶的節目、悶的菜式、悶的建築、悶的天氣、悶的環境、悶的情人、悶的人生。人人都怕悶,人人都嗌悶,其實人人日日都嗌悶,本身都已經好悶。


二少爺說:送呢首歌俾largeheadboy




Being Boring - Pet Shop Boys

I came across a cache of old photos
And invitations to teenage parties
"Dress in white" one said, with quotations
From someone's wife, a famous writer
In the nineteen-twenties
When you're young you find inspiration
In anyone who's ever gone
And opened up a closing door
She said: "We were never feeling bored

'Cause we were never being boring
We had too much time to find for ourselves
And we were never being boring
We dressed up and fought, then thought: "Make amends"
And we were never holding back or worried that
Time would come to an end

When I went I left from the station
With a haversack and some trepidation
Someone said: "If you're not careful
You'll have nothing left and nothing to care for
In the nineteen-seventies"
But I sat back and looking forward
My shoes were high and I had spots
I'd bolted through a closing door
I would never find myself feeling bored

'Cause we were never being boring
We had too much time to find for ourselves
And we were never being boring
We dressed up and fought, then thought: "Make amends"
And we were never holding back or worried that
Time would come to an end
We were always hoping that, looking back
You could always rely on a friend

Now I sit with different faces
In rented rooms and foreign places
All the people I was kissing
Some are here and some are missing
In the nineteen-nineties
I never dreamt that I would get to be
The creature that I always meant to be
But I thought in spite of dreams
You'd be sitting somewhere here with me

'Cause we were never being boring
We had too much time to find for ourselves
And we were never being boring
We dressed up and fought, then thought: "Make amends"
And we were never holding back or worried that
Time would come to an end
We were always hoping that, looking back
You could always rely on a friend

And we were never being boring
We had too much time to find for ourselves
And we were never being boring
We dressed up and fought, then thought: "Make amends"
And we were never being boring
We were never being bored
'Cause we were never being boring
We were never being

18 則留言:

  1. 我是闷蛋,信不信?:)

    我这两天在追看《倾世皇妃》,蛮紧张,不会闷涅~~

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    1. 其實我都是不善交際的悶蛋

      我都常以做運動解悶。

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  2. 好嘢, 又有PSB...

    我怕悶, 但好鍾意hea...

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    1. 我本人好悶蛋,但都怕悶,但享受獨處

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  3. 小弟自問唔覺悶
    但對好多人講係悶到想死個隻

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    1. 我都係呀,好多dead air, 搞到朋友個個垂頭玩電話。

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  4. 人生悶唔悶要自己爭取,自己發掘架喎,我就唔覺悶囉

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    1. 你當然唔會悶啦,一日48小時都唔夠玩

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  5. 我可以令人很不悶,但我常常很享受獨處!

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    1. 我可以令對方好悶,視乎我對他/她有無興趣,而且悶是互動,像打波,一來一往。會蔓延的。

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  6. 一個人坐係度都好多野捻,邊會悶。

    我咁大個仔煩永遠多過悶。

    唉,煩到爆。

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    1. 講得有道理,煩仲惡過悶。煩到失眠,但好少會悶到失眠。

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  7. 最怕問一句答一句!
    真會悶出鳥來。。。
    一群人當中可以很沉悶
    一個人獨處可從很享受

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    1. 對方答一兩個單字,立即轉台,
      話不投機半句多。

      獨處更勝應酬一大班無聊人。

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  8. 我唔悶呀,最近打網上麻鵲打到唔夠時間!

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  9. 卡臣:

    只要習慣面壁思索,就會心無雜念。無,即是有。悶,即是激。阿彌陀佛!

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    1. 佛爺果然是佛爺,明白了,我最富有了

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